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Sunday, June 03, 2007

The Force

How could Hip Hop possibly be dead?!
It’s a force. It’s energy.
A force that began in a land where drums talked and warriors danced.
An energy propelled from strife, oppression and power.
Energy cannot be destroyed. It keeps moving, transferring from vessel to vessel.

Like everyone else, I worry about the next generation of Hip Hoppers. I wonder whether enough of them would be able to see through the smoke screen of bullshit and touch and experience the healing, empowering force of this culture.

A few weeks ago I went to this event called “The Gathering”. This monthly, all ages party, aims to represent Hip Hop in it’s totality; Bboyin, Mcin, Graf writing, Djin. Aside from the fact that I met a really cute brotha there (Score!) this was the dopest get together I had been to in a long while. The energy in the room was kickin! On the stage, the DJ spun vinyl and the Bboys responded with some of the sickest break dancing moves I’ve seen in a long time. One side of the room was breakdancin while the other side got it in with poppin and lockin. Their was a huge wall strictly for tagging. The host, announced the open mic and a sick cipher ensued, 6-7 dudes on the stage, freestylin. They were ill with it, each one pickin up the flow where the other one left off. They were totally vibin. The Bboys popped. Locked and postured . I felt as if I had been transported to a time decades past. One kid would get on the linoleum and do his thing, get up, look his opponent up and down, flexin in his face. Next. Bboy crews sprang up, Flashback to the days of Rock Steady Crew. Kick, jump, spin… Pose.

“A lot of people think [we are] a bunch of rowdy ghetto heathen thugs -No. No. What we are, are oppressed.”

Two poppers face off. A skinny Black kid in camouflage and an Asian kid in a jersey and cap. The Asian kid’s moves have won over the crowd. The brotha next to me says, “Yea, he’s definitely hot but don’t forget, we Black, we was born with this shit, ya’ll had to learn it.” Word. I was so struck by this comment I had to write it down. Homie had encapsulated everything I’d been feeling that night. The Gathering was diverse, everyone was represented; Asians, Latinos, Whites, Blacks. And most of them were damn good. But none of them had what the Black kids had. None of them had the force. When the other folks danced, though it looked fresh, it also looked learned. When the black kids danced it was organic. Like they came out the womb spinning on their backs and doing the snake. An innate spirit fighting to come to the surface.

“This is not just a bunch of people acting wild, it’s an art form. It’s just as valid as your ballet as your waltz as your tap dance except we didn’t have to go to school for this it was already implanted in us… from birth.”

I realized then that Hip Hop can’t be dead, it can’t be killed. This force has been and will continue to pass through the generations of young people yet to come. The way I see it, Hip Hop dying is equivalent to our annihilation. It won’t happen. It’s indestructible, as are we, it’s part of our DNA. Is it what it was during it’s so called “prime” in the late 80’s to mid 90’s? No. Of course not. It has transformed, but so have we. I’m no longer afraid for the future generations. They will pick it up and they will run with it. They/it/we will survive. It’s all we know how to do.

“This is our ghetto ballet, this is how we express ourselves, this is the only way that we see fit of story telling. The only way of making ourselves feel like we belong.”

Saturday, June 02, 2007

Appreciating the Booty.


It's you, my crew don't mind it thick (Uh-uh)
Every woman ain't a video chick (Nah)

Or runway model anorexic

I love what I can hold and grab on

So if you burn it off then keep the flab on


Now ladies, don’t be startled by the title of this post. I too am a sista with a booty and just like you I’m sick and tired of the negative and offensive attention it draws from our can’t get enough brothas. Their nasty remarks and objectifying stares are not welcome and it’s about time they figured that out.

Butt. I am talking about a different type of booty appreciation. Lately I’ve realized that we sistas may be guilty of a serious offense: Booty ignorance. Sistas, we fail to appreciate our own butts! And if we don’t stop this neglect, our booty’s will up and leave. It happened to me. It can happen to you.

My sophomore year in college, I was living off campus for the first time. Times were hard and I was broke. The refrigerator was oft empty as was my belly. One day, while kickin it with some fellow po folks, someone exclaimed, “Damn Marly, what happened to your butt?” Whatchu mean what happened to my butt?! ITS RIGHT THERE! “Naw yo, your butt fell off. It’s gone.” GONE?! I rushed to the mirror. He was right. My ass had bounced (pun intended) on me. I did what I had to do to get my booty back; I ate furiously and became the queen of crunches. I prayed nightly for my booty’s return. Without my booty, I was just another short, booty-less chick! Eventually, after a couple months, my booty reluctantly returned. She wasn’t feelin me though. And she was right. I promised to never again be so neglectful. We made up.

Fast forward, Winter 07. Philadelphia, PA. Hard times hit once again. I had just moved and I was sho nuff struggling. My ass was starving. I begged and pleaded and told her I was workin on it but she wasn’t tryin to hear me. So. Again. She bounced. As we got ready to go out one night, Kin’s eyes looked at me with shock and dismay as my once sexy figure fitting jeans, hung loosely off my hips. I looked at the floor and shook my head. “I don’t wanna talk about it.” Once again, I had offended and failed to appreciate my booty. This time, I wasn’t sure if she’d return. We had been down this road once before. I went online and Googled, “get your booty back”, “how to get big”. Google returned with: The Atkins Diet, The South Beach Diet, The Nuts and Water Diet... WTF?! Where are the resources for those of us who love our round booties and thick thighs? I was lookin for the “Get it Right, Get it Tight for the Summer Plan” and all I found was “How to be Anorexic in 10 Days or your Money Back!” Fall passes, winter ticks by and still no booty. I resigned defeat to Kin and graciously passed on the “Best Booty” crown. Only when I really started to eat for my booty (read: rice, 3 meals a day) did she decide to return… with an attitude, of course. I apologized for my transgressions and she let me know in no uncertain terms that she would be out for good if I didn’t learn to appreciate her.

So sistas this is my testimony. We’ve been blessed. We can’t take our booties for granted. There are people (ya’ll know who I’m talkin about) who are walking around with butt pads to enhance the size of their asses! Our African lineage has blessed us with beautiful, round, bouncy booties. Let’s take care of them! And although men can be crass and disgusting in their ass commentary; at least they’re grateful. Which is more than some of us can say for ourselves. So this is my plea: Feed your booty! Appreciate your booty! Love your booty!

I love it when y'all broads wear it skintight
Make the big panties look like little panties

Tryin to lose that bottom girl you been right

I saw who make ya cookies I should go and thank ya granny
-De La Soul, Baby Phat